October, 19th 2007
– waking up late…after a long nite hanging out-
Since our hanging out time yesterday, i realize that time in a relationship doesnt really measure the depth and strength in a relationship itself.
Remember Melly Goeslaw’s (and the Damn BBB)’s song :
“Banyak yang bercinta, bertahun tahun putus juga”
It really happened in a real life of a friend of mine. Gees…how a four-year relationship ended up by a one-nigh fight?
I know i couldn’t judge them …who knows what actually happened to them, probably those fights have been started for a long time.
But…i just cant believe that all the four-year dreams they built could be crashed down in a night..by a ‘simple’ word : break up….
Hmm….let’s just wish the best for all of them…may they find the best person in their life.
Time really doesnt measure.
In the other case, some couple only just met for a couple of months and they decided to get married and they stick together till the end. How come ?
What is really the measurement tool for all of this complicated thing?
There are lots of questions crossing my mind. When we are in a relationship, sometimes i wonder. How could we know he or she is the one for us? Since time doesnt measure, since it is also hard to measure the quality of a relationship.
How can a man propose a woman, how can he be sure that she is the one for him?
And how can a woman say the magic “YES” word, how can she be sure that he’ s the one to be with for the rest of her life?
Uh, how complicated this is…
Then i just could pray …wish that he’s the one for me and He will show me the way.